“Break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than to hurt yourself trying to fix it.”
Being with no one I think is better than to be with the wrong one, or that <<wrong one>> thinks you are the mistake,the puzzle`s piece that does not fix in this situation.They say everything was perfect until you decided I wasn`t. Something usual, but let`s think objectively.Did you ever think your happiness is not depending on someone else ?
We’re pretty much programmed to think that’s the way to be happy, rather than to think that we need to make ourselves happy in order to gravitate towards other people who want us to be happy.Otherwise we end up in a co-dependent relationship rather than an interdependent one where we are together because we fulfill each other’s mutual needs.
Yeah, its`s sad when people you know become people you knew. When you can walk right past someone like they were never a big part of your life… How you use to be able to talk for hours, now you can barely look at them .
It’s very common to romanticize the good parts of the relationship,convincing yourself that maybe the bad parts weren’t so bad after all, that maybe you could just live with them. Or that maybe if your “ex” would know just how you feel, he/she wouldn’t want to break up after all. Don’t play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and work on moving forward!
Even if you and your ex have decided to stay friends, break away completely from each other right after the breakup. This means not seeing each other, not being around his/her family members, no phone calls, no e-mails, no text messages, no Facebook, and no YMs – not necessarily as a permanent measure,but until you feel that you can converse with him/her on a purely platonic level, without an ulterior motive (and yes, wanting to get back together counts as an ulterior motive).
One of the best tricks to help you stick to your resolve is to make a list of all the reasons your ex was not the one for you.When you find yourself missing your ex in a weak moment, and think you might actually be getting too close to the telephone,get out this list, read it over a couple times, and then talk to yourself, “This is the truth of what it was like. Why would I want to go back and torture myself again?” If you’re caught in a low-self-esteem trap, thinking you don’t deserve better, imagine this happening to a friend of yours, and think what you would say to your friend: “Get as far away as you can! That relationship was no good for you!”
It is hard, but it`s better to yourself. Think that if by chance both of you will meet face to face again on the same way,means you belong to each other,if you forget your ex till then,much more better !